
When was the last time someone called you a "boob"? For me, it was yesterday! Here's how it went down: For months, I had a Twitter account, but had not been using it much. That was, until I read Joel Comm's book, "Twitter Power". It's a fabulous book, one that got me really excited to take a more active interest in Twitter.
So, I started following people - lots of them. Mainly, I started looking for people that had something interesting to say, both famous and not so famous. I started going through author names for books on my shelf that I liked, one of which was an author named Alan Weiss.
However, when I visited his Twitter homepage, I was immediately turned off. The guy had a professional photo taken of him in his Bentley. Now, don't get me wrong, I think Bentleys are beautiful cars - I just wouldn't hire a photographer to take my picture in one and then use that picture as my twitter background. Nor would I name my Twitter account after it. That's pretty much the domain of the late night TV "Get Rich Quick" guys, isn't it? The ones who have a fool proof method for beating the stock market, but choose to sell it on TV instead of actually... beating the stock market? It's a bit much.

The other thing I noticed was that he has almost 2,000 followers and doesn't follow a single person. I don't think you need to follow someone just because they follow you, but, seriously... no one? How is that possible? There are so many interesting and fantastic people on Twitter! I have learned so much from other people on Twitter that I would have never discovered on my own. What that says to me is that he only likes to hear himself talk and doesn't think he can learn anything from anyone else. So...I made an honest comment about it on Twitter, and that's when all the trouble started...

If I received a comment like this, my response would probably have been to say something like, "I'm sorry you feel that way" or "This is why I don't follow anyone...". This is the Twitter response I received.

But it didn't stop there. I guess I upset him enough, that he talked about me on his podcast too. I'm not really sure what he was trying to say, but he called me a "boob" and then rambled on about how I should be listening to him because he creates value (and then some other stuff about his dogs and hamburgers). Ironically, I have listened to him, in fact, I have recommended his book to dozens of people and read through his "quality" posts, like this one:

I'll let you decide what brand message that sends about the author.
There is a quote I like: "Keep the company of those who are in search of the truth, and run from those who have found it." Following others on Twitter demonstrates a willingness to continue learning from others, even while you communicate your own message. It's a medium that allows a true dialogue with others. Instead, Alan seems to have spent a little too much time in his own echo chamber and doesn't want to hear anything but praise. People have said lots of things about me, some good, some not so good, but I take it all in and figure out how I can use it to become a better human being. As a business owner, if someone has something negative to say, I want to hear it. How else can I fix something if I don't know there's a problem?
Bottom line: Networking is all about being generous, caring about others, remaining humble, and being focused on others rather than focused on yourself. When I see someone that is completely "me focused", I have to call it out...even if it gets me called a "boob".

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If you are a Project Manager working in an IT environment, you may have heard the acronym ITIL® (IT Infrastructure Library, a set of books similar in nature to PMI’s PMBOK Guide) or ITSM (IT Service Management – the concept of IT as a “service” to the business). If you haven’t heard of ITIL, you will. Why? Simply put: in terms of industry adoption, ITIL is one of the fastest growing frameworks in the IT industry today.
ITIL helps organizations increase IT efficiency, improve quality, and control costs. In fact, AMR Research reports that IT organizations that have implemented ITIL best practices have saved up to 10% in IT costs without sacrificing the quality of service delivery. That is why U.S. Computer Economics has projected that approximately 45% of all organizations, both large and small, in the US and Canada will have adopted ITIL best practices in some form by the end of 2008.
High Demand for ITIL Expertise
Companies are turning to ITIL, and the demand for individuals with skills and expertise in this area is increasing. So much so, in fact, that ITIL certifications rank as some of the highest paid certifications in technology, along with PMI’s CAPM and PMP credentials. In recent salary surveys from ZDNet’s Tech Republic , PMI and ITIL credentials consistently rank in the top three IT certifications industry wide. With ITIL’s continued growth in the United States, the demand for IT Project Managers with expertise in ITIL will continue.
Focus is on Process, not Technology
The most compelling and interesting similarity between PMI’s PMBOK Guide and the ITIL books is that both are descriptive frameworks centered around process, not technology.
What this means to you is that both are extremely approachable standards. For example, the PMP exam does not ask how you would go about creating a milestone task within Microsoft Project. Rather, it makes sure you understand the importance of creating milestones.
The ITIL books are the same way. In order to really understand IT Service Management as a practice, you do not need to understand servers or switches. Rather, you need to understand things like the importance of controlling change, defining service levels, and maintaining a catalog of all your services to the business in terms the business can understand.
Both are bodies of knowledge covering simple principles that are drawn from deep industry experience. They both detail concepts that are scalable and adaptable to each organization. For example, the Project Plan for a small, simple project is going to look very different for a large, complex one. In the same way, the process for managing a minor software patch release is going to have a different scale of requirements compared to a brand new, enterprise-wide software release.
Frameworks on a Similar Mission
In the PMBOK Guide, the goal is to provide project results, on-time and under budget, that meet the needs of the customer. In the ITIL best practice set, the goal is to provide IT “services” that provide value to the business in an ongoing and cost efficient manner.
Both the PMBOK Guide and ITIL guidance have the same mission, to elevate the profession by adding structure and rigor around what is done. Both strive to create a common language and deliver predictable results in a repeatable manner.
For example, in projects, there is a tendency to compress planning and/or testing under the pressure of an aggressive timeline. However, a good project manager knows the importance of planning to alleviate rework later.
In the same way, businesses want IT to be agile and quick to make changes, while avoiding unforeseen consequences. This is done by putting processes in place to prevent unauthorized changes to the IT infrastructure. By having the discipline to develop and follow a formal Change Management process, IT organizations can handle more changes and lessen the risk to the production environment.
My Own Experience
I found ITIL to be a great compliment to my Project Management skill set as it covers topics in Change Management, Knowledge Management, etc. I really wished I had become certified when I first got involved in technology as it would have set me up with an understanding of how IT processes work (or should ideally work) and would have allowed me to better “speak the language” early on with others in IT.
Getting certified has also given me a greater appreciation of the importance of effective Service Management. I would highly recommend that other Project Managers working in (or with) technology look into ITIL certification as a way to compliment the PMP. In today’s competitive market, it sets you apart from the pack and provides you with an expanded toolset for successfully managing projects.
Once you sign into PMI's website, you can submit PDUs online. The PDU site has been recently redesigned and is really easy to use. So, you now have ideas on a total of over 80 PDUs that you can get in a few weeks time. No more excuses on maintaining your Project Management Professional (PMP) certification! ![]()
